There are definitely two main points I’d like to address from this episode that I feel I can totally relate to. Waiting to have sex and couples and firsts.
Taking your time in a relationship is always a good thing, you get to learn a lot about someone and you don’t get screwed (HA) too early on by someone just looking for a quick lay. I had a friend tell me about the 1 month rule. She said that you can sleep too soon with someone, otherwise you’re a hoe, and at 1 month of dating, it’s allowed. Makes sense enough to me, although waiting a month is a loooong time. I kept my last girl to 2 and it about killed her. It’s just you want to make sure things are right with this person and they’re not looking to sleep and run. I know I had my doubts and I usually try to make sure I’m not getting the bad end of the deal here.
That brings me to my next point about firsts. Every couple experiences firsts at different paces. First kiss, first dinner, first time they slept over. It just seems the longer you’re together, the less firsts occur and if they do, you’re not even really thinking about it. I don’t think couples should focus on things like that, I mean they’re nice and all, but why do they even matter. As long as the relationship is completely perfect for the each of you, don’t go adding more complications about firsts this and that, just enjoy what you have and live in the moment.
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